Red Sex Magick
Used to enhance, encourage, or stimulate sexual attraction and connection. Red work may be used within an existing relationship, for mutual passion, or to strengthen your own sexual confidence and desirability.
Passion · Attraction · Sexual Energy
Real New Orleans Voodoo Sex Magick
Sex magick is not love magick, but it can be a powerful companion to relationship work. These products are intended for consenting adults seeking to enhance attraction, passion, sexual connection, or carefully considered separation work.
Before Choosing a Kit
What Is Sex Magick?
For our purposes, sex magick is the use of ritual candles, herbs, roots, oils, prayer, intention, and spiritual work to affect the sexual energy surrounding a person or relationship. Sex magick can enhance a loving relationship, but it does not create love and does not replace love spell magick.
Sexual energy is also creative energy. It can be joyful, intimate, healing, playful, intense, and sacred. We encourage you to approach this work thoughtfully and responsibly.
Black Sex Magick
Used primarily for separation work, such as breaking the sexual connection between two people. This work should be approached carefully and only when you believe you are genuinely justified. Separation work and attraction work are separate goals.
Choosing the Right Gendered Product
If you are transgender, choose the product that corresponds with the gender you identify as, not the sex or gender you were assigned at birth. When working on another person, choose according to the gender that person identifies as. If you are nonbinary, gender-fluid, or your needs do not fit the choices shown here, please contact us and we will help you choose the product or combination that best fits your situation.
For Passion & Attraction
Red Sex Magick Candle Kits
Each kit includes the ritual candle and the spiritual supplies and instructions needed to perform the work.
Choose the Person Represented by the Candle
The cameo artwork is a visual guide. The ritual candle itself is the traditional genitalia-shaped candle described in each product.
Red · Masculine
Red Male Genitalia Candle Kit
A penis-shaped ritual candle, approximately eight inches tall, used for work involving a man or someone who identifies as a man. It may be used to encourage mutual sexual interest, improve a disappointing sexual connection, or increase attraction and passion.
For work focused on a specific couple, use the appropriate combination of two candles representing the people involved.
Complete kit: candle, herbs, oil, root bag, and instructions.
Red · Feminine
Red Female Genitalia Candle Kit
A female-genitalia-shaped ritual candle used for work involving a woman or someone who identifies as a woman. It may be used to encourage mutual sexual interest, improve a disappointing sexual connection, or increase attraction and passion.
For work focused on a specific couple, use the appropriate combination of two candles representing the people involved.
Complete kit: candle, herbs, oil, root bag, and instructions.
For Separation & Serious Situations
Black Sex Magick Candle Kits
Black sex magick is generally used to separate an unwanted sexual connection. If your ultimate goal is to restore or create attraction with someone, that is separate Red Sex Magick work.
Use Carefully and with Justification
Someone unknowingly involved with your partner is a very different situation from someone deliberately trying to cause harm. Keep the work proportional to the situation.
Black · Masculine
Black Male Genitalia Candle Kit
A penis-shaped ritual candle, approximately eight inches tall, used for separation work involving a man or someone who identifies as a man. It may be used to cool sexual interest, send someone away from a sexual relationship, or help break an unwanted sexual connection.
Requests involving a person's overall sexuality or sexual functioning should be reserved for truly extreme circumstances. Ordinary relationship problems call for separation work, not lasting harm.
Complete kit: candle, herbs, oil, root bag, and instructions.
Black · Feminine
Black Female Genitalia Candle Kit
A female-genitalia-shaped ritual candle used for separation work involving a woman or someone who identifies as a woman. It may be used to cool sexual interest, send someone away from a sexual relationship, or help break an unwanted sexual connection.
Requests involving a person's overall sexuality or sexual functioning should be reserved for truly extreme circumstances. Ordinary relationship problems call for separation work, not lasting harm.
Complete kit: candle, herbs, oil, root bag, and instructions.
Also Available Separately
Voodoo Sexual Essence™ Oil
The same Sexual Essence™ Oil included with the Sex Magick kits is also available separately in the larger 8-dram bottle. It may be used with other ritual candles, in appropriate personal ritual work, or as directed in your spiritual practice.
What Not to Do
- Do not use this work to force or compel someone into sex. Consent is not optional.
- Do not use Black Sex Magick simply because you are angry about ordinary cheating or relationship conflict. Separation work is different from asking for lasting sexual harm.
- When separating two people sexually, focus the Black work on separating them. If you also want attraction between yourself and one of those people, use Red Sex Magick as a separate working.
- Do not ask for contradictory results. Be clear about whether your goal is attraction, enhancement, separation, or work on your own sexual energy.
General Information
- The candles are sold separately so you may combine them in the way that fits the people involved.
- A single candle may be used when your work is focused on yourself, such as increasing your own sexual confidence or attractiveness in general.
- Sex does not equal love. These kits work with sexual energy. If the loving relationship itself needs repair, use appropriate love magick as well.
- If you are unsure which candle or combination fits your circumstances, please contact us before ordering.
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