Erzulie Freda is the Vodou and New Orleans Voodoo goddess of love. A gracious, luxurious, and refined lwa (Vodou Spirit), Erzulie epitomizes femininity, love, passion, and is called upon often for favors regarding one's love affairs. She may also
be petitioned for other help such as protection for your family, security, enhancing your own beauty and appeal, etc.
She is often misrepresented as petulant and never being able to be satisfied. This does a gross injustice to this beautiful spirit. The fact that she often dissolves into tears is misinterpreted as her being dissatisified with what is given to her.
That is not it at all; she dissolves into tears because she knows that no amount of material wealth can make up for the lack of love and spirituality in one's life. So even though she is often served in luxury, upon appearance at Vodou rituals, she is often wracked with tears eventually.
It is important to remember, also, that she cries so that you won't have to. Erzulie takes on the sorrow of the world and tries to filter and lessen it through her own tears. As with most lwa, she can be represented by images of a Catholic Saint.
Most often, the Mater Dolorosa (sorrowful mother), is used to represent Erzulie. This also defines Erzulie's devotion to the taking on of the sorrows of the world. As the Mater Dolorosa's appearance with a sword through her heart represents her sorrow over the crucifixion of her son, so Erzulie's sorrow is for all the world's trials and tribulations.
As with most lwa, she is a complex spirit having lived many lifetimes to evolve to her present state. She, of course, has happy, wonderful, flirty appearances, also. She does love refined things and wants to drink the finest champagne and eat the finest foods (especially delicious sweets and chocolates). She loves frilly, girly things and dresses in beautiful clothes of silk and lace. She loves diamonds and gold..anything that represents wealth and finery! She knows these things do not make up for the sorrows of life, but enjoying these things eases the pain for many of us! Erzulie is no different!
Do not, however, mistake this love of finery for greed. She is not greedy. Erzulie wants everyone to enjoy this abundance. She is much more benevolent and protective than she is often portrayed. She may also be petitioned if you are need of financial help, especially if this involves taking care of your children, family, or others. Do not be afraid to petition her outside of her known realm of love. She is a protector, provider, and fierce warrior for families, children, and all those who come to her in true need.
Another misrepresentation of Erzulie is that she is flighty and unable to stay with one man. This misinformation comes from the knowledge of her three marriages; once to Ogoun, once to Agwe, and once to Papa Legba (a belief in our New Orleans tradition; in Haitian tradition her third husband is Damballah). The three gold rings that most Erzulie altars have on them represent these three marriages. However, we must remember that these three marriages probably took place over lifetimes. It is sometimes hard for us to conceive of the many lives of the lwa and how long they have been with us!
Many people are afraid to do service to Erzulie Freda if they don't have much money. That is such an injustice to her! Yes, she loves refined and expensive things; that is not in question. However, just because you don't have a lot of money does not mean you should not serve her. We are firm believers that any service done with a good heart and doing the best you can will be well received. (This is our philosophy for ALL lwa!) Erzulie especially appreciates cleanliness, freshness. coolness - she likes everything to be organized and lovely. Again, that is not about money; she is about aesthetics! One of her Haitian songs is:
Ezili fre, li fre, li Freda
Ezili fre, li fre, li Freda
Ezili O! Li pa manje moun anko
Inosan Bondye va gade ou
Ezili Fre, li fre, li yon bel fanm
Ezili Fre, li fre, li yon fanm blanch
Ezili she is fresh, she is cool, she is Freda
Ezili she is fresh, she is cool, she is Freda
Ezili O, she doesn't eat people anymore*
God beholds her as innocent
Ezili she is fresh, she is cool, she is a beautiful woman
She is fresh, she is cool, she is a white woman
*(Erzulie never ate people. It means in the metaphorical sense such as "someone is getting eaten alive" by someone else.)
Below you will find that we have several products dedicated to and consecrated on the point of Erzulie Freda. These products are meant to serve and honor Erzulie while also asking for her assistance on your situation. Reach out to her so that she may answer you.